Every Girl's Dream

Hey dear brother, study have shown that 89% of the ladies have had their weddings planned out before age 12 (ok,that study is carried out by me, don't ask me for the source 😊). You know why that is?

Girls see weddings everywhere; friends, family members, in magazines, on social media etc. There’s something pretty special about two people saying “I do” for a lifetime of love and happiness. This is why women like to plan for quite a while. They don't want things to be done haphazardly. They have dreamt about it their whole life, and they want it to fit the pictures they've had in their heads since they can remember.

Many women, however, not only see it as the day they marry the man of their dreams but a preparation for that special day and the rest of their lives together. And some younger ladies just feel it's the time to have all the sweet treatment they have given to others come back to them,with no deep thought about what it would be like living with their partners for the rest of their lives.

There is even a joke that goes around of how a marriage counselor asked a couple how prepared they are for marriage,and they responded by saying "Hmmmmm,the wedding gown is ready, we have bought the cows (no offense to the vegetarians,it's just a joke), we have purchased the rings, even the venue has been paid for". This is to show how very unprepared people are for what lies ahead in marriage, most times mistaking it for just the wedding ceremony.

Ok,now I am deviating, my point is, as a guy,be aware that females take weddings very seriously, and as fate would have it,they are usually the centre of attraction,after all,it's them leaving their families to stick with you,they are taking your name,would bear your babies, they are the ones been "given away"....or did your own fathers go with you to the altar and hand you over to her?

There are different cultures around the world, I won't dispute that but here I am just speaking of the prominent way we know it's done,and therefore kindly give your bride to-be an upper hand in the wedding preparation. And need I remind you that they are even more detailed than most guys are,so they would remember a lot of details that the guys would naturally forget,so just cut the ladies plenty slack when it comes to wedding preparation.

Cheers ✌