Dear Couples,your vows doesn't contain any conditional clauses,does it?

Times are changing. Men wants to remain head without fully understanding what that means. Women have learnt to fight for themselves and not take whatever is thrown at them. Men and women wants to have things their own way. But the thing is, the word of God doesn't change. And a truly successful marriage is the one based on the word of God. The truth still remains that love should be truly unconditional. If you are not married yet and you see all the red lights, please run, because in dating you are permitted to love intelligently but once you are married,then this is the time to fight for what you believed in,in the 1st place.

So this brings me back to my question — on that beautiful day, heaven even seemed to acknowledge it because the sky was clear and blue, the weather was favourable...while exchanging vows,did you say something like "I vow to love and protect you if you love and protect me first"? I doubt it, so live out your vows. Without doubt our spouses might be extremely difficult sometimes but as far as they are not abusive especially physically (because that's when I would be obliged to take a different stand),then love them unconditionally and see if they won't respond back in love. Even the devil responds to love.